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Friday, November 7, 2008

7 stages of love

LOVE
It's that feeling, that nobody could explain cause it different ppl have different experiences in this regard.
Love just not happens at a sight. It is a horizon and every horizon have a fall, so love travels through seven stages.

ATTRACTION:
First of all see someone, you meet hundred of new people in your daily life. The first stage is attraction, that something appeals you, look twice, you get attracted by a person.

INFATUATION:
Then you get infatuated by that person. You start admitting it to yourself, that you like him/her, you ask yourself that what does that person means to you why you want to see him/her, why you adore his/her voice, why you get excited, when the attracted person looked at you, even a general look makes your heart bloom.

COMMUNION:
Then the third stage comes, when you admit it in front of that person, you introduce yourself like HI! i have noticed you around , I found you to be very attractive would you like to spend sometime with me or you started becoming closer to that person , so that he/she can notice you and you start chatting.

INTIMACY:
A very famous song is "everybody is looking for intimacy", that is deep friendship. Your communion stage is over & you both become necessary for each other to share, are the ideas and thoughts of each other , you have started thinking on the same levels that other person is thinking.

SURRENDER:
Then after coming or passing through the intimacy stage, your love enters in deliver our stage i.e surrender, you surrender yourself to that person, yes i am in love with that person.

PASSION:
Once you surrender, your loved one becomes passion for you. You want that person like anything, you adore & can't escape the thoughts about him/her you become passionate.

ECSTASY:
Last but not the least is the stage when you have strong feelings or agitation i.e ecstasy, thinking about one thing & that's the person, your all thoughts starts & finishes with that person. Here you decide that you
can't live without that person. So you got or you lose. The most interesting thing i find out after reading this love horizon is the end. Now you read it

THE END

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